On Being

A boutique ontological coaching practice

At On Being, we believe lasting transformation starts from within. Our mission is to empower individuals and leaders to achieve authentic, meaningful change by connecting deeply with their values, emotions, and purpose.

We specialize in ontological coaching, a holistic approach that explores the lens of how you perceive the world and how that lens shapes your actions. Through personalized guidance, we help you uncover new possibilities, break through limiting beliefs, and create sustainable growth —both personally and professionally.

Founded by Marisa Lucchesi, a coach and business leader with a background in behavioral economics, On Being combines practical insights with profound inner work. Whether you're navigating a career transition, enhancing leadership skills, or seeking personal clarity, we offer a supportive, transformative space to help you thrive.

Based in Boulder, CO, On Being is a global digital-first practice serving clients from diverse industries and backgrounds worldwide. Together, we’ll work to help you step into your fullest potential and lead a life that feels deeply aligned and fulfilling.

We’re trained & certified to top industry standards


Newfield Network
Ontological Coach
Training & Certification, 2024


International Coaching Federation (ICF) Member
2024 - 2025


The Internal Family
Systems (IFS) Institute
IFS-Informed training,
2024 - 2025

Meet Our Founding Coach & Managing Director

Marisa Lucchesi (she/they)

  • 🌍 Global Citizen: Multi-racial, multi-hyphenate, and queer advocate for inclusive leadership.

  • 🎓 Master’s in Economics: Graduated from Tulane University with a focus on behavioral economics.

  • 💼 10+ Years in Business Consulting & Leadership: Expertise in corporate and startup environments, driving strategy and growth for companies like Google.

  • ✍️ Creative, Writer, and Seeker: Passionate about exploring the human condition.

  • 📍 Based in Boulder, CO: Merging global perspectives with local roots to empower leaders and organizations.

Hi, I’m Marisa Lucchesi, Founding Coach of On Being, where I guide individuals and leaders through transformative coaching journeys rooted in self-discovery and meaningful change. My approach blends ontological coaching, Eastern wisdom traditions like Buddhism, and Internal Family Systems (IFS) principles to help clients unlock their true potential. With a warm yet direct presence, I adapt to each client’s unique needs and learning style, creating a supportive space for profound personal and professional growth. As a multiracial, LGBTQIA-friendly coach, I bring a deep understanding of navigating complex identities and fostering inclusivity in every interaction.

Beyond coaching, my decade-long career as a leader in strategic consulting has sharpened my skills in building innovative strategies for global companies like Google, T-Mobile, and Unilever. My background in Behavioral Economics, coupled with training through the prestigious Newfield Network and IFS Institute, equips me to blend data-driven insights with deep inner work. Whether you’re seeking to overcome personal barriers, achieve professional aspirations, or align with your core values, I’m here to help you step into your fullest potential. Let’s begin this transformative journey together.

“Because of coaching with you, I have the courage to stand up as a leader in a way that’s authentic to me.”

“Marisa has been a huge help in both my work and personal life. She has a way of making complex challenges feel manageable and helped me approach leadership with more confidence. Her mix of practical advice and thoughtful questions pushed me to grow in ways I didn’t expect. Every session left me feeling clear and motivated. I’d recommend her to anyone looking for a coach who truly gets it.”

— Alex T., USA

Our Approach

We specialize in ontological coaching, a powerfully holistic coaching approach. This transformative approach integrates mindset, body, and emotions, offering a multi-dimensional perspective that goes beyond visible actions to uncover and address the underlying beliefs and states of being. We help clients achieve profound and lasting change by focusing on the whole person.

We also bring a unique dimension to our work through training with the Internal Family Systems Institute, making us IFS-informed. This powerful methodology supports clients in understanding and integrating their inner parts, fostering deeper self-awareness and alignment. Together, these approaches create a comprehensive and personalized coaching experience designed to unlock your full potential.

OAR Model

Our OAR Model (Observer, Action, Results) helps clients break free from habitual, self-limiting patterns. Clients can uncover and shift limiting beliefs by learning to observe the observer that they are. This creates the possibility for entirely new actions and results that align with their authentic selves.

BEL Model

The BEL Model integrates the cognitive, emotional, and physical dimensions of being. Unlike traditional coaching methods that focus solely on language and thought, our approach helps clients understand and harness the insights from their bodies and emotions. This holistic view provides a comprehensive understanding of their state and potential for change.

IFS-Informed

The IFS Model (Internal Family Systems) is a transformative tool that views every person as a system of inner parts led by a core Self. IFS fosters deep inner and outer connectedness by helping clients access and heal their protective and wounded parts. This model empowers individuals to live with confidence, compassion, and courage, enhancing personal and professional relationships.

Book your risk-free consultation with us now.

Enjoy a free, no-obligation call with a certified coach committed to your growth. In this warm, judgment-free space, we’ll explore your challenges and aspirations together.

Ready to align with your whole and authentic self? Let’s begin your journey today.